How to handle a love reading that only focused on feelings, not actions
I just had a reading about my relationship and the psychic spent almost the entire session describing feelings—mine, my partner’s, the general vibe. But when I asked about what might actually happen or what I should do, I got very vague answers. Is this a normal thing with love readings? It felt frustrating because I wanted some practical insight, not just a summary of emotions I already knew about. How do you deal with these kinds of readings? Do you try to push for specifics or just accept the emotional overview? I’m mainly wondering if I’m expecting too much actionable info from something that’s mostly about energies and feelings.
velvet-thistle wrote:
the psychic spent almost the entire session describing feelings—mine, my partner’s, the general vibe
I get what you mean about feeling stuck with just emotions. When I do love readings as a hobby, I like to set a clear intention for the spread—something like “What is the next step for this relationship?” or “How can I better support my partner?”. If the reader mainly describes feelings, it can be helpful to ask for cards that point to actions or outcomes, like the Two of Wands for choices or the Knight of Cups for movement.
Sometimes the emotional info is the foundation, but I agree it’s frustrating if it feels like that’s all you’re getting. I once did a reading where the Page of Swords came up, which made me think about asking direct questions instead of waiting for broad feelings. Also, if the reader seems vague, it might be worth asking, “What should I actually do now?” or “What’s a next step?” explicitly. That can make a difference.
It’s not unusual to get feelings-focused answers, especially in love readings, because relationships are emotional by nature. But a good reader should also be able to guide you toward practical insights, even if they’re subtle suggestions. Sometimes it’s about considering the symbolism carefully rather than expecting a straight roadmap.